Am i incorrect for feeling this way? ?
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Let me give you guys the break down of why i feel like leaving him. First he’s 29 Im 20. He is like a teenager stuck in a grown mans body. He doesnt act his age. He is very sweet and he works hard so i can have what ever i want and hes very affectionate. But… I think something wrong with him. He still lives with his parents and before he met me he didnt have any bills they pay the rent and feed him. So when i got with him i started molding him. I had him get a car a credit card and a second job so he can pay his car note. Ok that the good right. Now the bad. He always fuck up some how. He puts the car in drive when he needs to reverse . He leaves the car in drive and get out with out putting it in park as well as never turning his lights on and if i tell him he always has a stupid excuse for why he did it. he doesnt take care of his hygiene he never brushes his hair. By the way he has wild happy hair. The hygiene includes not brushing teeth and washing face and body but he dresses nice. He orders food but doesnt calculate how much it Will cost. He has multiple game counsels and buys a video game for each one iincluding the collectors edition. He thinks Im joking when ever i talk to him about these things. He lies about little stuff no one would even lie about. I tried really hard to be understanding since his parents hindered him so much but i feel there is no hope for change in him we been together a year. Idk what to do. I feel his stupidity Will in danger us in the future he just doesnt attention we almost been in a horrible car accident due to him now paying attention. Idk what to do can anyone help me.nd a second job so he can pay his car note. Ok that the good right. Now the bad. He always fuck up some how. He puts the car in drive when he needs to reverse . He leaves the car in drive and get out with out putting it in park as well as never turning his lights on and if i tell him he always has a stupid excuse for why he did it. he doesnt take care of his hyg
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Answer by Catherine M
He probably has a developmental disability. Check his school records and test scores. Talk to his parents about his earlier history. You’ll learn a lot. Then you can make a decision about whether you can deal with him for the long haul.
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He doesn’t brush his teeth? That would be a deal breaker for me.
He doesn’t sound quite all there. Unless you want to mother this man forever, you should move along.
sounds like he maybe has behavioural and developmental issues
Has he ever been diagnosed as have a ‘special need ‘
Maybe speak to his parents to see if he has always been like this, maybe also chat to his friends
as they will know as well if he had problems at school at work etc
It sounds like he has some kind of mental disability, either developmental or as a result of head trauma. That doesn’t mean he can’t make a good partner, however. You have to decide if you can put up with these things, just like you would have to weigh that decision with anyone.
Wow..u guys are both a disaster. He’s a loser and ur a nag.
If it was meant to be with him, then you wouldn’t have to feel the need to change him into something to fit your needs. Find a man that will, and leave him for a woman that can deal with it.
I really doubt you can change him. Why does someone need the same game on multiple systems? That sounds very odd. How does someone who doesn’t have normal hygiene hold down two jobs?
It sounds to me like he has a mild mental disorder. So unless you are willing to take over for his parents and look after his whole life for him, I would move on. He’s never going to be a completely responsible adult. I’d leave for the teeth brushing and bathing alone. No way I would put up with that.